Health

Seven Habits for a Healthy Mind in a Healthy Body

To find clues for healthy living today, we must look to our past. The history of human evolution shows a definitive link between our physical health and psychological well-being. The Greeks understood the importance of a Sound Mind in a Sound Body. That credo became the foundation of their civilization. For clues on how we can best survive the 21st century we should look to the wisdom held in our ancestry and evolutionary biology.

In this entry I will explore ways in which modern living is causing our bodies and minds to short-circuit. I will recap the major periods of human evolution and offer a simple prescriptive that can insulate you from the ‘future shock’ that rapid advances in technology have created in our bodies, minds, and society. “Future shock” is a term for a certain psychological state of individuals and entire societies, introduced by Alvin Toffler in his book of the same name. Toffler’s most basic definition of future shock is: “ too much change in too short a period of time.”  Do you feel future shocked? What ways are you coping with it?

The ۷ Habits for a Healthy Mind in a Healthy body are simple daily lifestyle choices. These 7 principles are the foundation of The Athlete’s Way philosophy:

۷ HABITS FOR A HEALTHY MIND IN A HEALTHY BODY

  1. Daily Physicality: Exercise for at least 20 minutes most days of the week.
  2. Intellectual Curiosity: Spend some time in focused thought, exploring new ideas every day.
  3. Foster Creativity: Challenge your mind to connect unrelated ideas in new and useful ways.
  4. Human Unity: Create and maintain close-knit human bonds and a social support network.
  5. Spiritual Connectedness: Identify a Source of inspiration that is bigger than you.
  6. Energy Balance: Balance Calories in/Calories out, and reduce your carbon footprint.
  7. Voluntary Simplicity: Embrace the liberty that comes with wanting and needing less.

Technology vs. Evolutionary Biology

A visual image that I find useful for putting human evolution in perspective is to picture that if the entire length of your arm represented human evolution, the past 200 years would be represented by the white tip of a freshly clipped finger nail. We often forget the lightning speed with which recent modern inventions have reshaped our lives after hundreds of millions of years of very gradual change.

Here is a quick timeline of major inventions that have changed our lives since the 1800s: The steam engine and locomotive were invented in 1804, the telephone in 1876, the first electrical power plant in 1882, the production-line automobile in 1902, the television in 1927, the jet airplane 1943, the ATM in 1967, the cell phone in 1973, the internet in 1983. Isn’t it amazing to realize how recently these changes have occurred considering the first primate fossils date back some 20 million years?

The first seeds of the information age began in 1888 when an American inventor, Herman Hollerith, developed a successful computer, using punched cards and electricity. In 1911 he sold his company, the Tabulating Machine Company, which then became the Computing-Tabulating-Recording Company. In 1924 this company became IBM. Analog computers were developed in 1930 and the first electronic computer was in use by 1946.

The digital revolution was officially born late in 1947 when two Bell Labs scientists demonstrated a transistor that could take electric current, amplify it, and switch it on and off. By the late 1960s, large companies used computers. Personal computers were introduced in 1975. The internet and social media have changed the way we live, work and communicate in ways that would have seemed unimaginable just a decade ago. We are all scrambling to keep our bearings in this digital whirlwind.

Like many people, I believe that we have to be proactive in order to combat the potential of digital technology to zap our minds and bodies of their vitality. Obviously, digital advances have improved our lives in so many ways, but there are so many uncertains. For example: As a parent, I wonder if iPads as a learning tool help raise a generation that is being spoon fed too much over-processed everything or do they enhance learning and creativity? I think it’s a dual-edged sword.

Technology has the ability to greatly enhance our lives, but it also has the power to cause our bodies and brains to atrophy. What are the consequences to our biology of living in a virtual reality, where we don’t have to work physically to stay alive? Will our children be able to adapt to these changes better than we did or will it only get worse? The advice herein is a prophylaxis to help insulate your biology so you can continue to climb ever-higher and maximize the potential of your body and mind.

Humans are Built to Run

As hunter-gatherers, the human body evolved to run great distances hunting prey and gathering food. The ability to spring through the air using our gluteus maximus muscles is what sets us apart from primate cousins. This pogo-stick ability of each leg allowed us to travel long distances and to hunt and gather a high protein diet, using relatively little fuel. We are very fuel-efficient machines. As our brains grew, so did our prefrontal cortex, the seat of human intelligence, and we became better hunters. It also kept our cerebellum bulked up, which gave us the benefit of a strong ‘up brain’ and a strong ‘down brain.’ I wrote a Pyschology Today blog about this split-brain model that you can check out here.

Endurance running is unique to homo sapiens among all other mammals except for dogs, horses and hyenas. Drs. Lieberman and Bramble, paleontologists at Harvard, established that our slender legs, shorter arms, narrower rib cage and pelvis, skulls with overheating prevention features, and the nuchal joint, which keeps our heads steady when we run, set us apart from chimpanzees.

The scientists concluded that running improved our chances of survival and reproduction. Although we were not as swift as our four-legged competitors, we could (and still can) out run and hunt over greater distances than other predators. Lieberman says, “Endurance running may have made possible a diet rich in fats and proteins thought to account for the unique human combination of large bodies, small guts, big brains, and small teeth.” It also imbedded the need to stay active into our biology.

Unity, Creativity, and Adventure are in Our DNA

One reason the Neanderthals may have became extinct is that they stayed in certain caves in France and parts of Spain for endless generations, relying on the same simple chiseled tools. Homo sapiens, on the other hand, were inclined to keep pushing into new areas, and inventing new technology. This is believed to be one reason that human lineage did not become extinct.

The first jewelry that archeologists have discovered dates back as far as 75,000 years ago. It is believed that homo sapiens in Africa began making beads, and piercing holes in the teeth of deceased loved ones to wear as adornment around this time. These findings illustrate that creativity and a deep need for human connection are embedded in our DNA. As the hunter-gatherers traveled the land in small bands, they also made sharp spears and other tools. Creative thinking and innovation have been linked to human survival for millennia.

Early agriculturists faced many challenges that hunting-gatherers didn’t have to deal with. Farming meant the agriculturists needed to figure out how to exploit a relatively small amount of land very intensely, rather than taking advantage of a large amount of land as hunter-gatherers did. Early agricultural life, didn’t require us to run, but it did require superior intelligence, physical stamina, and close-knit human bonds. Humans were able to do this and continued to evolve.

Agrarian society created a new lifestyle and social network. Pre-industrial farming required intense physical labor. The harvest cycle required a sustained physical effort a few times of the year based on seasonal weather patterns. Just as hunter-gatherers traveled in bands together, agrarian farming built tight communities. The necessities of agrarian life molded human behavior and society in ways that were uprooted by industrialization and commercialized farming.

Early farmers had to store food and to refrain from consuming whatever was available at the moment. If an agricultural community behaved like hunter-gatherers by grazing as they gathered food, they would starve to death in the winter. As agrarians we had to practice delaying gratification and not feast when there was abundance. Given the abundance of calorie-dense, nutritionally low food constantly at our disposal today—and the innate hunter-gatherer wiring embedded in our biology—it is understandable why so many people binge and have trouble delaying gratification.

Industrialization + Energy Gluttony = Global Warming

The first Industrial revolution occurred in Great Britain between 1750 and 1830. The use of automated machinery and the arrival of mass production created a new consumersociety in the late 18th Century. Industrialization was a shock to the human system. Developments in Europe moved the population from a largely rural population, that made its livelihood from agriculture, to a town-centered society increasingly engaged in factory manufacturing. Later in the 19th century, similar revolutionary transformations began occurring in the United States.

Homo sapiens evolved to be very fuel-efficient machines. This is one reason it’s so easy for us to gain weight when we don’t have to do physical work to hunt or harvest our food.  With industrialization, physical expenditure dropped drastically. A typical hunter-gatherer required only 2,000 to 5,000 kilocalories of energy a day obtained through direct caloric consumption. Early agricultural societies required the equivalent of 20,000 kilocalories per person daily to maintain a farm. Early industrial societies required 60,000 kilocalories worth of energy, and modern post-industrial information societies require the equivalent of 120,000 kilocalories. The impact of this energy consumption on our environment are well known and one reason voluntary simplicity will benefit us all in the long run.

Socio-Economic Stratification

With industrialization, people moved into cities and began to work in factories. The human relationship to physicality and to nature changed. Much of the Romantic movements of the 19th century were a reaction to industrialism, by a class of people who could afford to appreciate nature and translate it into art. The Romantics wanted to reconnect with nature for creative and spiritual reasons. They realized that in gaining a command over nature, humans had lost something visceral and mystical that occurred through a connection to nature. How is the disconnect from nature and our own biology impacting our spiritual connectedness today?

I decided to embrace voluntary simplicity and live closer to nature a few years ago. Getting out of the city and de-cluttering my life was the most liberating thing I’ve ever done. Today I can fit all of my material possesions in the back of a small station wagon, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I keep the overhead very low and am able to live by the 7 principles here on a spartan budget. You can, too! One great thing about the digital age is that it allows you to work from anywhere. I have chosen to live closer to nature with visits to the city. I find that it is the perfect balance for optimal creativity and well-being. I feel very lucky to have the best of both worlds.

The socio-economic stratification of those who make a living doing creative jobs and who also exercise regularly is a point of interest to me. When I look at the record number of high-achievers entering local road running races, marathons, triathlons…and compare those statistics to the nationwide averages of obesity, I ask myself the chicken-or-the-egg question of which came first: their creative success or their dedication to regular physical activity? I fear that exercise, obesity, and creativity will become more and more of a class-divider in years to come. I am working to combat this through everything I do with The Athlete’s Way platform and corporate partnerships geared at funneling resources towards wellness initiatives aimed at underserved American youth.

Conclusion: Sweat is the Most Effective Elixir for Future Shock

I strongly believe that the 7 Habits for a Healthy Mind in a Healthy Body presented here are an antidote for future shock. Adopting these habits into your daily routine will keep you healthy, happy, and young at heart. Daily physical activity is ultimately the single most important elixir for staving off the negative impacts of modern life. Just 20 minutes most days of physical activity makes a huge difference in your state of well-being.

As Hippocrates said, “Walking is the best medicine.” A short, brisk daily walk could make all the difference in your long-term mental and physical health. If you want to be a resilientthought leader or innovator, you need to flex muscles in your mind and your body. Physical activity clears the cobwebs from your mind and makes you more creative. Almost every successful person I know who has an enduring career and remains prolific with fresh ideas has made the connection that regular physical activity is a requisite for his or her mental, physical, and professional longevity.

You don’t have to become an exercise fanatic, but nobody can sweat for you. If you want to stay competitive in a modern world you have to make physical activity a part of your daily routine. A generation ago before the digital revolution, in accepting his 1950 Nobel Prize in Literature Bertrand Russell—who was a zealot for the power of physical activity—addressed the pitfalls of modern living and offered some advice. I close with a quote from his speech titled: What Desires are Politically Important?

Our mental make-up is suited to a life of very severe physical labor. I used, when I was younger, to take my holidays walking. I would cover twenty-five miles a day, and when the evening came I had no need of anything to keep me from boredom, since the delight of sitting amply sufficed. But modern life cannot be conducted on these physically strenuous principles. A great deal of work is sedentary, and most manual work exercises on a few specialized muscles. Civilized life has grown altogether too tame, and, if it is to be stable, it must provide the harmless outlets for the impulses which our remote ancestors satisfied by hunting… More seriously, pains should be taken to provide constructive outlets for the love of excitement. Nothing is more exciting than a moment of sudden discovery or invention, and many more people are capable of experiencing such moments than is sometimes thought.

Christopher Bergland
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Ten ground rules for more effective meetings

 

“If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve, its full potential, that word would be ‘meetings.” ― Dave Barry

Blog-post by Joel Dobbs,

ECF Council

, Fri, 07/19/2013 – 21:00

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Meeting

Economist and political philosopher Thomas Sowell once said that people who enjoy meetings should not be put in charge of anything. Most of us who have spent our careers in organizations both large and small would probably agree.  Meetings are an important component of organizational life and are necessary for the coordination of activities, sharing of information, and making decisions. But meetings can also be a colossal waste of time.

Agreeing to meeting norms or “ground rules” in advance can help to make meetings more productive, shorter, and less frustrating.   Here are ten ground rules that have worked for me in the past and may work for you as well.

  1.     Begin and end on time.Nothing is more frustrating than attending a meeting that begins 10, 15 or even 20 minutes late either because someone wants to use the time to socialize or discuss something irrelevant or because key players arrive late.  Start the meeting at the appointed time regardless of who is present.  Latecomers will get the message.  Stop at the appointed time.  Time boxing meetings is a great way to keep people on task.
  2.    Stay on subject and follow the agenda.First, have an agenda and be clear about the meeting’s purpose.  Then stick to it.  If you are running the meeting you may have to play the role of sergeant-at-arms to keep people on track.  Focus on driving towards the meeting’s stated purpose.
  3. One person speaks at a time.  I once worked for a company that had respect as one of our core values.  One of the rules for meetings was that only one person could speak at a time.  Interrupting or talking over others was considered a sign of disrespect and was seriously frowned upon.
  4. Listen to understand, not to contradict.  One of the late Steven Covey’s Seven Habits was “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”  Too often, especially in highly competitive cultures, contradiction and arguing can be viewed as signs of leadership.  They are not.
  5. Respect the views of others.  You can respect another person’s point of view without agreeing with them.  Cable news and talk radio too often promote the idea that anyone who disagrees with you is your enemy.  Nothing could be further from the truth. Negative and rude reactions to alternative points of view is more a reflection of your own insecurity and ignorance than the ignorance of the other person.
  6. Check your understanding by asking questions.  Encourage people to ask clarifying questions rather than making assumptions about things they don’t understand. If you are leading the meeting, model this behavior for othersQuestions should be clear, to the point and asked respectfully.
  7. Constructive, honest debate is desirable.  The objective of most meetings is not quick and unanimous agreement but getting something accomplished, a decision made or a problem solved.  This may require having a frank, open and honest debate.  Groups that shy away from tough discussions are almost always ineffective, regardless of the task at hand.
  8. Silence is agreement.  In the traditional wedding ceremonies of years ago the ceremony ended with the person performing the wedding asking if anyone knew why this couple should not be joined in marriage followed by the command, “Speak now or forever hold your peace.” This should be a ground rule for all meetings.  If you have an objection, speak up.  Otherwise, forever hold your peace.
  9.    Attack problems, not people.  Stay focused on and debate issues, problems and solutions, not people.  Bringing an individual into the conversation personalizes the discussion, puts people on the defensive, and guarantees that a lot of time and energy will be wasted, not to mention hurt feelings.
  10. Finally, to quote Sir Mick of Stone: “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need.” Meetings may still take a lot of your time and you may still find some of them to be frustrating, but by applying some simple ground rules you may find that in the end you get what you need.

Suggested Sample Ground Rules for Meeting Operation Each committee should develop/review a list of ground rules at the beginning of each year. The list below provides sample ground rules that various committees have used. Your committee may wish to incorporate some of these or develop new ones. • Start / end our meetings on time • Members will read materials, minutes etc. and be prepared to discuss at meetings. • Stay on task; no side conversations • Listen to others and don’t interrupt. • We will follow an agenda • Operate on consensus – seek general agreements all can “live with.” • Make decisions based on clear information. • Bring closure to decisions • Identify actions that result from decisions • Committee members will support committee recommendations • Agree on what information goes “out” and what stays in the group. • Accept the fact that there will be differences of opinion. • Show mutual respect • We will honor brainstorming without being attached to our own viewpoint. • We will keep our own notes of the meetings • Use Meeting Summaries (Includes Agenda Items & Minutes) • Check egos at the door. • Attack the problem, not the person- “no blame game” • Share time so that all can participate • People will speak when recognized. • Be free to speak minds without fear or reprisal. • Don’t attribute ideas to individuals. • Identify pending issues and agreements at end of meeting

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Fifty Common Signs and Symptoms of Stress

۱. Frequent headaches, jaw clenching or pain

۲. Gritting, grinding teeth

۳. Stuttering or stammering

۴. Tremors, trembling of lips, hands

۵. Neck ache, back pain, muscle spasms

۶. Light headedness, faintness, dizziness

۷. Ringing, buzzing or “popping sounds

۸. Frequent blushing, sweating

۹. Cold or sweaty hands, feet

۱۰. Dry mouth, problems swallowing

۱۱. Frequent colds, infections, herpes sores

۱۲. Rashes, itching, hives, “goose bumps”

۱۳. Unexplained or frequent “allergy” attacks

۱۴. Heartburn, stomach pain, nausea

۱۵. Excess belching, flatulence

۱۶. Constipation, diarrhea, loss of control

۱۷. Difficulty breathing, frequent sighing

۱۸. Sudden attacks of life threatening panic

۱۹. Chest pain, palpitations, rapid pulse

۲۰. Frequent urination

۲۱. Diminished sexual desire or performance

۲۲. Excess anxiety, worry, guilt, nervousness

۲۳. Increased anger, frustration, hostility

۲۴. Depression, frequent or wild mood swings

۲۵. Increased or decreased appetite

۲۶. Insomnia, nightmares, disturbing dreams

۲۷. Difficulty concentrating, racing thoughts

۲۸. Trouble learning new information

۲۹. Forgetfulness, disorganization, confusion

۳۰. Difficulty in making decisions

۳۱. Feeling overloaded or overwhelmed

۳۲. Frequent crying spells or suicidal thoughts

۳۳. Feelings of loneliness or worthlessness

۳۴. Little interest in appearance, punctuality

۳۵. Nervous habits, fidgeting, feet tapping

۳۶. Increased frustration, irritability, edginess

۳۷. Overreaction to petty annoyances

۳۸. Increased number of minor accidents

۳۹. Obsessive or compulsive behavior

۴۰. Reduced work efficiency or productivity

۴۱. Lies or excuses to cover up poor work

۴۲. Rapid or mumbled speech

۴۳. Excessive defensiveness or suspiciousness

۴۴. Problems in communication, sharing

۴۵. Social withdrawal and isolation

۴۶. Constant tiredness, weakness, fatigue

۴۷. Frequent use of over-the-counter drugs

۴۸. Weight gain or loss without diet

۴۹. Increased smoking, alcohol or drug use

۵۰. Excessive gambling or impulse buying

ManWomanBrainTest

تست مغز زنانه و مغز مردانه

تست مغز زنانه و مغز مردانه از کتاب “چرا مردان گوش نمی دهند و زنان نمی توانند نقشه بخوانند” نوشته “باربارا و آلن پیز” ترجمه ” ناهید رشید و نسرین گلدار”

۱ – وقتی می خواهید نقشه و یا راهنمای خیابان‏ها را بخوانید

الف – دچار مشکل می‏شوید و از دیگران کمک می‏خواهید.

ب – نقشه را می‏چرخانید تا جهتی که می‏خواهید بروید روبرویتان قرار گیرد.

ج – هیچ مشکلی در خواندن نقشه یا راهنمای خیابان‏ها ندارید.

۲ – در حال پختن غذایی پیچیده از طریق برنامه آشپزی رادیو هستید که دوستتان تلفن می‏کند

الف – رادیو را روشن می‏گذارید و در حالی که با تلفن حرف می‏زنید به آشپزی خود ادامه می‏دهید.

ب – رادیو را خاموش می‏کنید ، دست از آشپزی می‏کشید و با تلفن صحبت می‏نمایید.

ج –  به دوستتان می‏گویید که بعد از آشپزی بی‏درنگ به او زنگ خواهید زد.

 ۳ – دوستانتان می‏خواهند برای دیدنتان بیایند و از شما مسیر خانه جدیدتان را می‏پرسند

الف –  برای آنها کروکی واضحی از مسیر می‏کشید، جهت را مشخص می‏کنید و برایشان می‏فرستید و یا از کسی می‏خواهید تا مسیر را برایشان توضیح دهد.

ب –  از آنها می‏پرسید که چه علامت‏ها و یا نشان‏هایی را در مسیر می‏شناسد، بعد سعی می‏کنید  برایشان توضیح دهید که چگونه خانه شما را بیابند.

ج –  شفاها به آنها می گویید:”وارد خیابان کاج می شوید، به سمت چپ می‏پیچید، به دومین چراغ قرمز که رسیدید…”

۴ – وقتی در حال توضیح یک نظریه یا مفهوم هستید، اغلب

الف – از مداد یا حرکات دست و صورت استفاده می‏کنید.

ب – از صحبت و حرکات دست و صورت و بدن استفاده می‏کنید.

ج – با دقت و صراحت و فقط با کلام آن را توضیح می‏دهید.

۵ –  وقتی بعد از دیدن فیلمی فوق‏العاده به خانه برمی‏گردید ترجیح می‏دهید

الف – صحنه‏ها را در ذهنتان تصویر کنید و به یاد آورید.

ب – درباره صحنه‏ها و حرف‏های بازیگران صحبت کنید.

ج – عمدتا حرف‏های زده شده در فیلم را عینا نقل قول نمایید.

۶ – در سینما معمولا چه مکانی را برای نشستن انتخاب می‏کنید؟

الف – طرف راست

ب – فرقی نمی‏کند

ج – طرف چپ

۷ – یکی از وسایل مکانیکی دوستتان از کار افتاده است، شما

الف – با همدردی درباره احساس آنها در مورد این مشکل بحث می‏کنید.

ب – یک نفر قابل اعتماد را برای تعمیر آن وسیله معرفی می‏نمایید.

ج – با در نظر گرفتن نحوه کار وسیله خراب سعی بر تعمیر آن می‏کنید.

۸ – در محلی ناآشنا قرار گرفته‏اید و کسی از شما مسیر شمال را می‏پرسد،

الف – می‏گویید نمی‏دانم.

ب – پس از کمی فکر کردن جهت شمال را حدس می‏زنید.

ج – بدون هیچ مشکلی جهت شمال را نشان می‏دهید.

۹ – محل تنگی برای پارک کردن پیدا کرده‏اید و باید با دنده عقب وارد آن شوید،

الف – ترجیح می‏دهید جای دیگری برای پارک اتومبیل خود را بیابید.

ب – با دقت سعی می‏کنید با دنده عقب وارد محل تنگ شوید.

ج – بدون هیچ مشکلی با دنده عقب در آن پارک می‏کنید.

۱۰ – در حال تماشای تلویزیون هستید که تلفن زنگ می‏زند،

الف- همانطور که تلویزیون روشن است، به تلفن جواب می‏دهید.

ب – تلویزیون را خاموش می‏کنید و بعد جواب تلفن را می‏دهید.

ج – تلویزیون را خاموش می‏کنید ، به دیگران می‏گویید ساکت باشند و بعد جواب تلفن را می‏دهید.

۱۱- به تازگی ترانه جدیدی از خواننده محبوبتان شنیده‏اید،

الف – می‏توانید برخی قسمت‏های آن را بدون مشکل بخوانید.

ب – اگر ترانه ساده باشد می‏توانید برخی قسمت‏های آن را بخوانید.

ج – به یاد آوردن ترانه برایتان مشکل است اما بعضی کلمات آن را به یاد می‏آورید.

۱۲ – در پیشگویی نتایج کارها یا مسایل فوق‏العاده هستید چون

الف – از الهام مدد می‏جویید.

ب – برپایه اطلاعات در دسترس و احساس باطنی تصمیم می‏گیرید.

ج – از حقایق ، آمار و اطلاعات استفاده می‏کنید.

۱۳ – کلیدتان را گم کرده‏اید،

الف – به کارهای دیگر مشغول می‏شوید تا یادتان بیاید کلید را کجا گذاشته‏اید.

ب – در حالی که به کارهای دیگر می‏پردازید ، سعی می کنید به یاد آورید که آن را کجا گذاشته‏اید.

ج – در ذهنتان مرحله به مرحله کارهایتان را مرور می‏کنید تا بالاخره یادتان بیاید.

۱۴ – در هتل هستید و صدای آژیر خطر از فاصله دور به گوشتان می‏رسد

الف – نمی‏توانید جهت صدا را تشخیص دهید.

ب – شاید با کمی تمرکز بتوانید جهت صدا را تشخیص دهید.

ج – بی‏درنگ می‏گویید که صدا از کدام طرف می‏آید.

۱۵- به یک گردهمایی می‏روید و به چند شخص جدید معرفی می‏شوید، روز بعد

الف – به راحتی می‏توانید چهره‏های آنها را به یاد آورید.

ب – صورت یک یا دو نفر آنان را به یاد می‏آورید.

ج – بیشتر اسم‏های آنها را به یاد می‏آورید.

۱۶ – برای تعطیلات دوست دارید به روستای حومه شهر بروید اما همسر یا نامزد و یا خانواده‏تان میل دارند به ساحل دریا بروند، برای همراه کردن آنها با نظر خود

الف – به ملایمت احساس خود را به او یا خانواده می‏گویید. اظهار می‏دارید که روستای ییلاقی مورد علاقه شماست و بچه‏ها و خانواده اغلب در آنجا اوقات خوبی را می‏گذرانند.

ب – به او یا خانواده می‏گویید که اگر به روستای ییلاقی بیایند، ممنون خواهید شد و دفعه آینده با او یا خانواده به کنار دریا خواهید رفت.

ج – از دلایل منطقی استفاده می‏کنید: روستای ییلاقی نزدیک‏تر و کم‏هزینه‏تر و برای ورزش و تفریح مناسب‏تر است.

۱۷- هنگام برنامه‏ریزی فعالیت‏های روزانه‏تان

الف – فهرستی می‏نویسید تا بفهمید چه کارهایی باید انجام دهید.

ب – درباره آنچه باید انجام دهید فکر می‏کنید.

ج – در ذهنتان افراد یا جاهایی را که باید ببینید و کارهایی را که باید انجام دهید، مجسم می‏کنید.

۱۸ – یکی از دوستان دچار مشکل شخصی شده و نزد شما می‏آید تا درباره آن با شما صحبت کند،

الف – اظهار همدردی می‏کنید و او را می‏فهمید.

ب – به او می‏گویید که مشکلات معمولا به آن سختی که به نظر می‏آیند نیستند.

ج – توصیه‏ها و نصایح منطقی خود را برای حل مشکل به او ارایه می‏کنید.

۱۹ – زن یکی از دوستانتان با شوهر دوست دیگرتان رابطه پنهانی دارد، چگونه به این رابطه پی می‏برید؟

الف – خیلی راحت موضوع را می‏فهمید.

ب – پس از مدتی به موضوع پی می‏برید.

ج – اصلا بویی نمی‏برید.

۲۰ – از دید شما زندگی به طور کلی چه مفهومی دارد؟

الف – داشتن دوستان و زندگی کردن در هماهنگی و سازگاری با اطرافیان

ب – داشتن رابطه دوستانه با دیگران در حین حفظ استقلال فردی.

ج – دستیابی به هدف‏های با ارزش، به دست آوردن احترام دیگران، پیشرفت و کسب اعتبار و آبرو.

۲۱ – اگر حق انتخاب داشته باشید، ترجیح می‏دهید

الف – در گروهی متشکل از افراد لایق کار کنید.

ب – در کنار دیگران ولی با حفظ جا و موقعیت خاص خود کار کنید.

ج – به تنهایی کار کنید.

۲۲ – چه کتاب‏هایی را برای مطالعه ترجیح می‏دهید؟

الف – رمان و افسانه.

ب – مجلات و روزنامه‏ها.

ج – کتاب‏های مستند ، واقعی و زندگی‏نامه‏ها.

۲۳ – هنگام خرید،

الف – اغلب بدون برنامه‏ریزی چیزهایی را می‏خرید که همیشه مورد توجه‏تان هستند.

ب – برنامه‏ای کلی برای خرید دارید ولی چیزهایی را می‏خرید که توجه‏تان را جلب می‏کنند.

ج – برچسب‏ها را می‏خوانید و قیمت‏ها را مقایسه می‏کنید.‏‏

۲۴ – ترجیح می‏دهید خوابیدن ، بیدار شدن و  غذا خوردن‏تان،

الف – مطابق میل‏تان باشد.

ب – طبق یک برنامه اساسی باشد اما گاهی آن را مطابق میل‏تان تغییر دهید.

ج – دقیق و سرِ ساعت معین باشد.

۲۵- کار جدیدی را شروع کرده‏اید و با افراد جدیدی در محل کار آشنا شده‏اید، یکی از آنها به منزل شما تلفن می‏کند،

الف – او را راحت از روی صدایش می‏شناسید.

ب – پس از کمی مکث او را به یاد می‏آورید.

ج – در تشخیص صدایش دچار اشکال می‏شوید.

۲۶ – هنگام بحث با دیگران چه چیزی شما را بیشتر ناراحت می‏کند؟

الف – سکوت و جواب ندادنشان.

ب – عدم توجه به نظر شما.

ج – سوالات و نظرات مبارزه‏جویانه و موشکافانه آنها.

۲۷ – در مدرسه چه احساسی راجع به امتحانات کتبی و شفاهی داشتید؟

الف – هر دو نسبتا آسان بودند.

ب – معمولا یکی از این دو نوع امتحان برایتان راحت‏تر از دیگری بود.

ج – در هیچ کدام از آنها موفق نبودید.

۲۸ – وقتی می‏خواستید برقصید،

الف – اگر رقصیدن را آموخته باشید می‏توانید موسیقی را احساس کنید.

ب – می‏توانید برخی رقص‏ها یا حرکات موزون را انجام دهید اما برخی رقص‏ها یا حرکات برایتان دشوار است.

ج – در حفظ زمان و ریتم دچار مشکل می‏شوید.

۲۹ – تا چه حد در تشخیص و تقلید صدای حیوانات توانا هستید؟

الف – نه چندان خوب.

ب – خوب.

ج – خیلی خوب.

۳۰ – در پایان روزی طولانی معمولا ترجیح می‏دهید

الف – با دوستان یا خانواده درباره روزی که گذشت صحبت کنید.

ب – به حرف‏های دیگران درباره روزی که داشتند گوش کنید.

ج – روزنامه بخوانید، تلویزیون تماشا کنید و حرف نزنید.

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بررسی نتیجه آزمون

اغلب مردان بین ۰-۱۸۰ و زنان بین ۱۵۰-۳۰۰ امتیاز کسب می‏ کنند. مغزهایی که اساسا برای افکار مردانه برنامه‏ ریزی شده‏ اند معمولا کمتر از ۱۵۰ امتیاز به دست می‏ آورند. هر قدر این امتیاز به صفر نزدیک‏تر باشد برنامه ‏ریزی مغز مردانه‏ تر و تستوسترون بدن بیشتر است. این افراد بسیار منطقی، اهل تجزیه تحلیل و مهارت‏ های کلامی و نظم و انضباط هستند، در امر طرح‏ ریزی قیمت‏ ها و برنامه ‏ریزی نتایج برای اطلاعات آماری قابلیت بیشتری دارند و به زحمت تحت تأثیر احساسات قرار می‏ گیرند. امتیاز کم نشانگر قابلیت مردانه بیشتر است. این امتیاز دلالت بر میزان تستوسترون بیشتر بدن جنین در هفته‏ های اول تشکیل و رشد دارد. هرقدر امتیاز یک مرد بیشتر از ۱۸۰ باشد، احتمال همجنس‏ باز بودن او بیشتر است.

هرچه امتیازات یک زن کم‏تر باشد ، او تمایل بیشتری به همجنس‏ بازی دارد. مغزهایی با برنامه‏ ریزی زنانه امتیازاتی بالای ۱۸۰ کسب می‏ کنند. هرقدر امتیاز بالاتر باشد ، مغز زنانه‏ تر است وخلاقیت‏ ها و استعدادهای هنری بیشتری را بروز می‏ دهد. زنی با امتیاز بالا در موسیقی با استعدادتر است و بیشتر تصمیماتش بر الهام و شهود مبتنی می ‏باشد. او با کمترین میزان اطلاعات، بهترین تشخیص را ارایه می‏ دهد.

مردانی با امتیاز زیرصفر و زنانی با امتیاز بالای ۳۰۰ دارای مغزهایی کاملا متفاوت و متضاد هستند. تنها چیزی که آنها را به هم پیوند می‏ دهد، زندگی روی یک سیاره می‏ باشد.

کسانی که امتیاز بین ۱۵۰-۱۸۰ کسب می کنند سازگارترند. این افراد هیچ تعصبی در مورد عقاید زنانه یا مردانه از خود نشان نمی ‏دهند. این انعطاف در فکر و اندیشه امتیاز برجسته ‏ای در روند حل مسایل به شمار می‏ آید. افراد مذکور با هر دو جنس زن و مرد به راحتی دوست می‏ شوند و ارتباط برقرار می‏ کنند.

 

سینا یاوریان – سخنران ، مدرس و مشاور روانشناسی